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\u201cSo many of us will accept adoration even if it\u2019s not about us, even if it\u2019s only about the perception of us. Or some service we provide. We are happy to be cast in other people\u2019s plays so long as we’re given a role.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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