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\u201cLet\u2019s see, what else? Don\u2019t go into debt over clothes. Hug your dogs while you have them. Know that you can skip most anything. You will fall in love eventually. Remember that. Also, the things you like aren\u2019t weird. Don\u2019t worry about being normal. It\u2019s an awful thing to aspire to.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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